S2E18 - Asking for What We Want

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the importance of identifying and asking for what we truly desire in relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. Jess shares her experience of launching a retreat called "The Temptress," focusing on helping women explore empowerment through seduction and self-expression. The hosts discuss how self-discovery, setting boundaries, and confidently expressing desires can transform relationships. Lisa opens up about her journey of learning to ask for her needs within polyamory, while Jess and Ella emphasize the impact of honesty and clear communication on maintaining healthy dynamics.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone for a deep conversation on self-expression, confidence, and sensuality.

[00:02:00] – Jess’s Healing Journey: From being shamed for her seductive energy to reclaiming it as a gift.

[00:08:00] – The Temptress Retreat: How a misheard word led to the creation of an event centered on feminine magnetism.

[00:15:00] – Seduction as a Superpower: How attraction, confidence, and desire are all deeply interconnected.

[00:25:00] – Lisa on Empowered vs. Disempowered Pleasure: How many women settle for ‘good enough’ instead of what they truly crave.

[00:33:00] – Magnetism & Receiving: The difference between chasing and attracting the love, pleasure, and experiences we desire.

[00:40:00] – A Personal Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa encourage women to practice asking—without shame, without apology.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and intimate coaching.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A framework for understanding giving, receiving, and pleasure dynamics.
Midori’s Teachings on Seduction & Sensual Mastery – Tools for stepping into feminine power.

• Power Priestess Retreats – Jess’s upcoming sensual embodiment experience for women.

• FetLife – Mentioned as a resource for those curious about expanding their desires in safe and informed ways.